As my first child grew, I quickly realized that real life is much more complex than any textbook could prepare you for. Then, with the arrival of my second child, things became even more challenging. It wasn't just about parenting anymore, but also about finding a balance between my demanding career and family life. It was a constant struggle to dedicate quality time to my children while fulfilling my professional commitments. As my children grew, their unique personalities blossomed, revealing their distinct ways of seeing and understanding the world. I realized that the same parenting tools and strategies didn't work for both. I started struggling to adapt myself to resonate with each child's unique temperament and intellectual landscape. The day-to-day realities of parenting, with its emotional challenges and constant demands, were far more difficult than I had anticipated.
I desired to feel confident and calm in my parenting, to strengthen my connection with each child, and to balance my career and home life without feeling overwhelmed. I yearned to develop a deeper, more harmonious relationship with them, one built on understanding, empathy, and trust. I also wanted to become the best version of myself as a parent, navigating challenges with patience and wisdom.
Do you feel overwhelmed and stressed by the demands of parenting
You feel frustrated and and yell more often than you want to.
Do you struggle to communicate effectively with your kids.
Do you doubt your parenting skills and feel uncertain about your decisions
You know that something has to change and desire for support, but don't know how.
Do you feel confused about what strategies to follow.
You are not alone . . . I've been there and can relate.
I developed a set of tools to help you navigate the challenges of parenting with ease.
The breaking point hit me during what I had hoped would be a joyful, bonding moment with my family. We were playing together, laughter filling the room, when suddenly one of my kids became upset. I tried everything I could to make it better, to bring him back to that happy place, but with every word, things only spiraled further out of control. My frustration grew as I realized that my efforts to comfort him weren’t working—they were only making things worse. In that moment, the weight of my own helplessness crashed over me. I wasn’t connecting with him at all. Instead, I was reacting, stuck in a loop of frustration and control, and it became painfully clear that something in my approach had to change—completely. I felt stuck, knowing that my parenting approach wasn’t working, but unsure of how to change.
I immersed myself in learning everything I could about positive parenting, to find the tools and knowledge that would help me understand my kids better, regulate myself and them in stressful situations, effectively communicate with my kids and strengthen my relationship with them. I began practicing self-regulation techniques, learning to respond to my children’s emotions with empathy rather than frustration. I focused on building stronger emotional connections, setting clear boundaries, and improving communication. I committed to creating a more supportive, loving environment for my family.
The journey wasn’t easy. Old habits of frustration and yelling were hard to break, and there were moments when I doubted whether this new approach would work. I had to constantly remind myself to be patient, both with my child and myself, as we navigated this new way of interacting. There were conflicts between wanting immediate results and recognizing that true change would take time, but I was determined to push through.
After months of working through these new techniques and building emotional connections, I noticed a dramatic shift in our home. My children started to open up more, their emotional outbursts became less frequent, and I was able to approach tense situations with greater calm and patience. Our family dynamic improved, with more laughter, joy, and understanding filling our days. I no longer felt like I was battling with them; instead, we were working together to navigate the challenges of everyday life.
This journey completely transformed me as a parent. I no longer react out of frustration or try to control situations. Instead, I focus on nurturing a deep emotional connection with my children, which has brought us closer than I ever imagined. I learned to embrace imperfection, recognizing that parenting isn’t about control but about connection and growth, both for me and my kids. This shift not only strengthened my relationship with my children but also deepened my understanding of myself as a parent. Today, I approach parenting with a sense of calm and confidence, knowing that we are on this journey together, learning and growing every step of the way.
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I am a full time working mom of 2 and in the beginning of my career, so I was focused on my career more and was able to pay little attention to my kids. I realized that how disconnected I am with my children and needed help. That’s when I found Sarita. She was so amazing and guided me in right direction. She provided me with the tools and support that I needed to navigate those obstacles.
From our very first session, it was clear that she genuinely cared about our well-being. Sarita listened attentively to our concerns and tailored strategies specifically for our family's unique dynamics. With her guidance, I learned effective communication techniques, conflict resolution skills, and ways to strengthen our bond as a family.
The changes we've seen in our day-to-day interactions are remarkable. I now able to approach challenges with a sense of unity and understanding. The positive impact Sarita has had on our lives is immeasurable, and we are incredibly grateful for her expertise.
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